Please pray

Well, it seems like we take two steps forward then fall flat on our backsides!

Just as things were picking up with the kids schooling, getting MUCH better with Rick's work, etc we had a major backslide this week. Sean's behavior escalated from lying, to inappropriate language at school (resulting in a one day suspension), to physically hitting his sister with drumsticks that were in his hand because he got angry.

Please pray that God will continue to guide us in dealing with this (as he has thus far). Sean is a GREAT kid at heart, but is in utter turmoil. He is very remorseful for all that has gone on in the last week, which we are very greatful to see, but at a total loss as to why it happened. He is AD/HD and ODD (oppositional defiance disorder). He is impulsive, and his anger overwhelms him so that he reacts without any thought about the outcome. His heart aches if he dwells on what he did to his sister. He is remorseful that his words were so awfully interpreted at school. To know that our trust in him is damaged is hurtful.

Keith recommended we surround him with men of even temper to mentor him - teenage boys need so much guidance. I love this idea, but I fear that Sean will be too embarrassed to agree - he is so ashamed of what he has done. Please pray that he will open himself to this wisdom and guidance.

How do I teach this two-sided being that is my child - loves to hug (even now), kind and courteous to even the smallest of beings, but acts so rashly and is so blinded by anger that he is completely the opposite? He wants to obey, but struggles with understanding boundaries and limitations.

Please keep him (and us) in your prayers. Pray that his relationship with his sister can be repaired. Pray that we can hear God's wisdom in his guidance for us as parents.