Another of Life's passages

Today we celebrate the life of Rick's great-aunt, Lucile Hinson. Rick has been asked to lead singing at the funeral, something perhaps that had been expected his father would be here to do. It's been almost 3 yrs since Dick left us, but the heart is still tender to the loss. It's odd how this passage of Lucile's life has brought Rick to a passage in his own. Somewhere he was sent 3 yrs ago, but a path that he can no longer deny he must tread.

Rick has always seemed comfortable in the shadows of his father's lead of the family. Being the oldest, he was never in a rush to "be in charge". It's been odd to be an "outsider" to his childhood, only to imagine the "big brother" that he was then (and is now) - quiet, unassuming, gentle, unless the forbidden line is crossed. Dick always led singing, led the family in prayer at our various gatherings, guardian of the "code" that must be followed. That baton was passed to Rick 3 yrs ago at our first family Christmas together after Dick passed away. Rick hesitated, allowing for one of his brother's to take the lead, perhaps. But they made it clear they knew Rick was owner of that baton by their gesture - he was expected to now lead the family in prayer before our meal together.

That baton has been there ever since, but Rick has yet to take ownership of it. He has held it graciously, always making sure the others knew he would share it if they desired. But every time, they make it clear who is now the leader of the family - they look to Rick every time.

A new passage for him, undeniable now, that he must take the lead, be the leader - a role he assumes with great humility and much respect for his predecessor. And so this day's celebration of a passage of "Aint Seel" to be with her savior, we acknowledge another of life's passages for Rick.